Don't ignore your power. Many of us know and feel a power that resides within, an instinctive confidence, an ageless knowing, a voice that's wise and has the answers. nd we turn our back on this voice. Time and time again we succumb to our fear, our perfectionism, our need to control.

Nikki speaks to HuffPost Women about sex, Orgasmic Meditation and "pleasure projects" as part of their "Meet the Women Who Want to Help Other Women Orgasm" panel exploring "the orgasm gap", why women have fewer orgasms than men.

My god, you powerful woman
You take my breath away
With each fall, you push on
Each blow, you expand
Shine that bright light
Let me be seen
I see you, woman

Four years ago I launched Electric Woman in London. I stood in front of 150 people and talked about my vision for more women to feel empowered, be true to themselves and overcome their fears. Yet despite believing passionately in the content,  I wasn't living true to this. In the lead up to the event I was run down, working long hours, worried about what everyone else thought of me.